Is your only exposure to kink and BDSM what you see in movies or porn? For beginners, these situations can be messy, funny, and a little different from what you may have expected.

To help with this, your first BDSM experience Naughty By Nature Adult Store has some tips in the following blog to ensure it is something completely enjoyable, erotic, and, most of all, fun. Keep things realistic and take it slow with these non-threatening ways to get started with bondage in the bedroom.

Tip 1: Take your time 

Items like a spreader bar or clitoral clamp are exciting if you have no experience with bondage, but you should certainly ease your way into it.

Start with sensory deprivation via a quilted eye mask that heightens the senses and sensations for a feeling of arousal and intrigue.

You could also try quilted handcuffs, fastened in the front, so the wearer can touch themselves for a sexually explorative experience in which the handcuffed person is in control of their own pleasure.

Tip 2: Use a safeword 

Begin by having a conversation in which you set rules and boundaries. Using a safeword, so people know when to stop will make the experience more pleasurable.

Discuss your expectations and limits with your partner for a safe and stress-free play-date in which you have confidence and trust in each other.

Tip 3: Add some alluring attire 

Bondage props aren't the only aspect of BDSM. The entire experience is a lifestyle that includes dressing up in a sultry or fetish outfit. From the dominatrix-style look to a dirty costume, there are plenty of kink varieties to explore.

Tip 4: Experiment with dominance 

Decide who is dominant and who is submissive, and switch if you like! The dominant person can ask the submissive to stay still for a certain amount of time, refraining from masturbation until the dominant allows it. 

The dominant can have fun ordering the submissive to delay their orgasm until they choose for a different kind of arousal.

Interested in exploring all of this a little further?

If you would like to explore the world of bondage further, come and speak to the team at Naughty By Nature Adult Store to view products and get some ideas.

Just remember, communication beforehand leads to enjoyment and fulfilment, and as long as there is consent, boundaries, and limits, you and your partner can have a lot of fun in trying something new.