We don’t have to tell you that sex toys can make your sex life much better than it already is. Even if you’re having great mind-flowing sex, adding toys to the equation can take it to the next level.

Using sex toys doesn’t make you or your partner inadequate at all. It’s a well documented fact that women need clitoral stimulation to reach climax. A lot of the best sex toys on the market have the clitoris in mind and incorporate anal play as well, which men are particularly enthusiastic about. We’ve come up with a list of the best sex toys for couples, and those looking for solo pleasure as well.

Couples should use sex toys together because aside from feeling good you can focus on self pleasure while your partner watches you and that can help give them ideas on what you find pleasurable.

Introducing sex toys also closes what’s known as the “orgasm gap” which is where women statistically have fewer orgasms than men due to a lack of clitoral stimulation. All it takes is 15 to 20 minutes to totally change your sex life. Sex toys such as vibrators or dildos can also speed up the process.

The best sex toys for couples are ones that can be used together. Generally speaking, any sex toy can be used by a couple whether it’s handcuffs, paddles or simply some flavoured lube or massage oil.

The best toys for couples don’t necessarily have to be used as intended for example, a vibrator can be used on the clitoris or it could be used on the other person’s nipples, inner thighs or anus. If you are going to share a sex toy then it’s best to wash it before and after use as per the instructions. It is also best to use toys that are rechargeable rather than those that have batteries. Nobody wants their batteries to go flat in the middle of the act, which could totally wreck the mood.

It is also best to avoid cheap toys. While there are many entry level toys, if you’re used to sex toys then adding ones with the bells and whistles will give you a much better experience. For example, you could opt for a vibrator that you use alone or you could get a vibrator that can be controlled by your partner while they are elsewhere.

These vibrators can often be controlled by an app or if they’re in the same room then a remote will do the trick. Other fun sex toys for couples are wearable vibrators. For some added excitement you can wear these on date night and let your imagination run wild.