Men generally use vibrators on their female partners to help them reach orgasm. You may be surprised to know that vibrators can also have a powerful effect on men’s bodies as well. Here we will provide some ideas on how you can get a buzz during sex whether it’s giving or receiving.

Ensure that both parties consent

Some people are turned on by dirty talk during foreplay. Regularly check in with your partner to see that they’re enjoying what you’re doing. Men aren’t generally used to having a vibrator used on their body so you may not know what they find pleasurable. Using dirty talk can serve two purposes - The first is that it can help build the sexual momentum and the second is that you will know what they enjoy so you can help bring them to orgasm much faster than if you just relied on instinct.

Take your time: It’s a marathon not a sprint

It’s very easy to get caught up on thinking about the finish line when we’re engaged in sexual intercourse or foreplay but in many cases the build up can be just as, if not more satisfying than the climax. Take your time getting your partner off. Remember the first time you used a vibrator, you probably started off at a slow speed and then as you got used to the sensation you increased your intensity. Focus on giving your partner pleasure rather than getting him off.

Vibrators don’t just need to be used on the penis. They can be used on other body parts including the head of the penis or his nipples. It’s best if you position it at an angle or slide it up and down the shaft or his thighs. Soon without even trying he’ll be screaming in ecstasy and returning the favour.

Slow and sensual wins the race

Imagine there are imaginary lines on his body. The imaginary lines are where you should drag the vibrator. If you prefer, you can focus on one area for a longer period of time before moving on. Look and listen for visual cues to know that you’re doing the right thing. The best spots to stimulate include the head of the penis and its shaft. Focusing specifically around the base of the head is sure to give him pleasure.

While it’s not talked about often men love their balls getting stimulated, especially after oral sex however it can be just as invigorating on its own.

The perineum is another erogenous zone for men. The skin around this area is super sensitive, especially when you gently massage it.

While a lot of men do like anal play if you’ve never experimented with it before check to see that he’s happy with you targeting this area. While you may not want to insert the vibrator immediately, you can run the vibrator along his butt checks, perineum and lower back to give him similar feelings that won’t result in a trip to ER.

Always clean your vibrator afterwards