Just as couples can get into a rut with their sex lives, we can also get into a rut with our sex toys. It happens for a similar reason. We know what we like and so instead of trying new things we go back to what we know we like. The good thing about this is that you’re always guaranteed an orgasm but the bad part is that you may be missing out on something even better. There’s so many other ways that you utilise your sex toys whether it’s alone or with a partner. You don’t just have to stick to what you know.
 

Mutual masturbation

It is exactly as the name suggests. Both you and your partner will masturbate in front of each other. It is actually a seriously under-rated and under-appreciated sexual activity but can be a lot of fun and extremely hot. The best thing about mutual masturbation is that while your partner may not know how to express what they like in the bedroom you can observe each other and then bring those things into the bedroom. For example if they like to be penetrated hard and fast but then slow and soft you can incorporate that into your routine and they’ll be thrilled with you because they’ll think you’ve figured it out on your own or they’ll appreciate that you were taking notice. It can also be ideal for any situation when you don’t really feel like having full sex but you still want to get yourself off. Basically mutual masturbation is about self-pleasure and it’s also about letting your imagination run wild while the other partner is in front of you.
 

Nipple fun

The nipples are one of the most erogenous zones for both men and women. Regardless of your gender, a study found that when you stimulate the nipples it activates the same areas of the brain that are responsible for clitoris and vaginal pleasure. That makes sense when you consider that some people can orgasm from nipple sucking, licking or stimulating. Nipple play can be made even more fun with introducing nipple clamps or a suction vibrator.

 

Have a backgasm

Typically speaking, the back isn’t an erogenous zone but despite that common belief, some people can orgasm from back stimulation. It simply takes their partner kissing, licking, tickling, biting, massaging or touching their back. For some people it can be extremely arousing and a major turn on. You can increase the sensation by using a wand vibrator. The larger head is perfect for back play and the vibrations will help get them relaxed.
 

Let’s play footsies

Some people have a foot fetish and there are so many different ways to play with the feet. You can do everything from massaging, licking, caressing, toe sucking and even a foot job. You simply start with a bullet vibrator, wand or another vibrator and focus on the different areas of your foot. Before you know it you and your partner will be screaming with ecstasy.
 

Last longer

One complaint that a lot of woman have is that their man finishes too early but with the use of a cock ring you can last longer which increases the chances that your partner will climax. The build up will help build anticipation and a more intense experience that you won’t if you just get in and out, although sometimes everyone loves a quickie.